MEN!

Men!

I asked a man friend of mine if I was allowed to rip on men on my blog as long as I didn't mention names or major identifying information. He said yes as long as I give a good reason and a solution.

The reason....I don't understand them!

Why are their egos are so fragile?

They get pissy about the the smallest stuff.

I LOVE men do not get me wrong.

I have more male friends than female friends.

I LOVE men.

I prefer hanging out with the boys over a night out with the girls.

I REALLY DO LOVE MEN!!

So, you would think that men wouldn't piss me off so much but damn they really do piss me off.

I have a fabulous friend who has picked up a girlfriend in the last couple of months and has dropped off the face of the earth he won't return a phone call or a text message.

So, fucking irritating. We had all sorts of fun adventures planned with our group of friends and now all those plans are in the shitter.

So, annoying!

A girlfriend or boyfriend is supposed to be someone who can go to events with you and y'all hang out with each others friends and socialize. You don't just drop off the face of the earth and not see ANY of your friends!!

My solution.... Figure out how to have a relationship where you balance girlfriend time with friend time.

I have a met a nice guy recently (thru the internet) I like things about him. We have yet to meet face to face but maybe someday soon. I have talked to him on the phone. Nice phone voice (important to me).

BUT he gets pissy then ignores me on Blackberry Messenger.

I want to scream GROW UP! Seriously?!?

Today he ignored me because I didn't give him my Instant Messenger screen names.

YOU DIDN'T ASK FOR THEM!!

Im not on a computer all day so I RARELY log on to my Yahoo, GTalk & AIM.

Sorry I tried to tease you about it.

But thank you for ignoring my questions about when we are going to be Facebook friends.

There are things about him I really like and there are things about him that I think are deal breakers.

I don't know if we will ever meet in person. If he keeps up these little hissy fits I would say we probably won't meet.

My solution.... COMMUNICATION if you want me to contact you in another way besides BBM let me know. Its not hard. Something you want to know ASK!

I have lots of guys I could drag into this blog. But these 2 were the ones who chapped my hide today.

I am to a point in my life where my tolerance level for bullshit is very low.

I need men to quit acting like a bunch of little girls! Don't just hang with your new BFF and if you want something learn how to communicate!

Not that hard y'all.

And just a friendly reminder it is 65 days, 20 hours, 30 minutes and 35 seconds until Thursday, September 9, 2010 at 8:30:00 PM (New Orleans time) or the NFL Regular Season Starts!!

So, get ready y'all!!

XOXO

Kate!